Is it worth paying $7,500 to have your book published? Maybe.

SFC_2019-07-30_E6My July 30 book culture column for the San Francisco Chronicle:

My ex-husband’s uncle was a World War II fighter pilot who went down with the plane. A true hero. Several years ago, the family paid someone to write Uncle Dante’s story. They had about 100 books made and distributed them to family and friends. Everyone cherished those books, and Uncle Dante’s heroism was memorialized. To me, that’s one of the very best examples of self-publishing.

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Jeanine Cummins & Vivian Gornick

AmericanDirtThe good news about Jeanine Cummins’s new novel American Dirt is it’s the best book I’ve read this year, last year and every year since I can remember. The bad news is they’ve delayed the publication and it’s not coming out till January. If you can get your hands on an ARC (Advance Reading Copy), DO IT NOW. Or pre-order it. I promise you it will fly off the shelves.

I kept looking at Cummins’s picture on the back flap to see how this very white Irish-looking person wrote such a compelling, terrifying, realistic novel about a Mexican mother and son escaping drug cartel violence in Acapulco and riding atop The Beast, the train to el norte. It’s impossible that she herself had this experience so I can only conclude that she’s one hell of a reporter and an equally talented writer.

It’s not a spoiler to tell you the book opens with the violent act that cause Lydia, a well-educated bookstore owner, and her precocious eight-year-old son Luca to flee. It comes at you with the opening sentence: “One of the very first bullets comes in through the open window above the toilet where Luca was standing.”

Lydia has inadvertently befriended the head of a drug cartel and when her journalist husband exposes him, the consequences are disastrous. Their heart-pounding escape and journey to the U.S. are told in harrowing detail and blistering prose.

Cummins is the wife of a formerly undocumented immigrant and she’s said because the migrants at the Mexican border have been portrayed as a “faceless brown mask,” she wanted to give them a face, unique stories of their own. Boy does she ever.

This book is being compared to The Grapes of Wrath. The comparison is apt. Just as that novel told the story of the migration west during the Dust Bowl, this story captures and personalizes our current immigration nightmare. If there’s one book you should read this year, American Dirt is it.


FierceAttachmentsI kept coming across Vivian Gornick’s Fierce Attachments, written in 1987, on lists of best memoirs. Since memoir and biography are the non-fiction I like best, I finally got to it.

Wow. Gornick has a difficult mother. Her book tells the back story of their family life in the Bronx and chronicles her present walks around New York with her no-less difficult-with-age parent.

An accomplished journalist, both vulnerable and strong, she’s in the powerful grip of this complicated woman. The merest slight renders her an insecure child again. Any woman who’s ever been victimized by a mother—and really, who hasn’t?—will relate.

There were so many places in this book where I saw my mother and just as many where I saw myself. That’s great writing.

Tricks of the used-book trade at Green Apple Books

SFC_2019_07_16-E6My July 16 book culture column for the San Francisco Chronicle:

E.H. Mann flips through a huge stack of books as if it were a deck of cards, adroitly placing them in three separate piles: Buy, Maybe and No Way. Mann, assistant manager at Green Apple Books on Clement Street, has been the store’s principal used book buyer for the past 19 years. Up to 50 people a day bring in books to sell.

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Peter Orner

I got an advance copy of Peter Orner’s collection of very short stories Maggie Brown & Others a while back and it’s been sitting on my night table for a few months. I dip into it whenever whatever else I’m reading isn’t working. The truth is I’m savoring it … I want it to go slowly. Because it’s that good.

Orner-MaggieIn the meantime, this rave appeared in the Times this past week. Dwight Garner really captures Orner’s genius. And I do mean genius. The book is so multi-faceted and full of memorable characters, I wasn’t sure I could do it justice. So I selfishly didn’t share it with you.

Stories I loved: “Ineffectual Tribute to Len” (even snippets of lines like “Then in February, it was always February that year…” kill me); “1984,” in which a group of stoned kids try to barbecue some frozen chicken breasts they’ve rooted out of the freezer; the sad sweetness of “Erwin and Pauline,” which ends with everyone gathering post-funeral for “cold cuts”—and oh my god the names: Joey Pignatari and Newt Shakenberg and Cindy Roo and Itchy Burman. They’re stories in themselves.

Orner’s characters are Jewish “like they wore shoes or overate at lunch,” the kind of Jewish that has its own language, behavior, set of values, and humor and feels familiar to anyone who is or has ever hung out with Jews.

It’s a whole rich world full of love and regret and pathos and the very ordinariness and insanity of life that Peter Orner conjures up in this collection. Put it by your bedside and dip in as you would with a box of the very best chocolates. You’re welcome.

No need to feel guilty about the pleasures of mystery books

Chron_2019_07_02-E6My July 2 book culture column for the San Francisco Chronicle:

I have a dear friend who for years was a big-deal corporate lawyer in a big-deal New York firm. She worked insane hours and sacrificed a great deal on the road to making partner. But she had a secret guilty pleasure: Great piles of mysteries, the trashier the better, covered every flat surface in her apartment. It was in these satisfying pages that she found relaxation. Throw in a pint of Haagen-Dazs and life was sweet.

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Audiobooks aren’t a bad thing. Unless you’re driving, maybe.

HSFC_2019_06_18_E6_25pctMy June 18 book culture column for the San Francisco Chronicle:

Years ago, back when cassettes were a thing, I had my first driveway moment. My son and I were driving to our cabin in the Trinity Alps, and I’d brought Jon Krakauer’s Into Thin Air to entertain us on the long car ride. Five-and-a-half hours later we pulled up at the cabin. Usually we would jump out of the car as fast as possible to put on our swimsuits and head for the river. But this day, neither of us moved. We stayed in the car. We had to hear the end of the story.

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Ingrid Contreras & Anne Fadiman

Back in the 80s when I was traveling in South America I was scared to even leave the airport in Bogota. And I wasn’t exactly the cautious type.… I traveled through Peru sola when the Sendero Luminoso was blowing things up on a regular basis. During those years The South American Handbook advised chaining your suitcase to your wrist and the overhead rail on the train to keep it from being stolen.

Today, of course, tourists are blithely adding Colombia to their itinerary. Whole families even! A friend’s daughter is leading trips out of Medellín. Medellín! Where Pablo Escobar et al. once held sway.

Contreras_treeIngrid Contreras’s Fruit of the Drunken Tree takes us back to those days when Escobar and the paramilitary were waging war; car bombings, assainations and kidnappings were the order of the day; young children were being conscripted to join the guerillas; and the whole country was in a state of fear and anxiety.

She tells the story through the eyes of seven-year-old Chula Santiago, who lives with her upper middle class family in a gated community in Bogotá. The family hires a teenage maid, Petrona, who comes from the mountainous slums with whom Chula falls in love a little, in a little girl crush-like way.

The novel is told in alternating chapters from Chula and Petrona’s point of view. The voices ring authentic and true not only in describing the events around them but also their inner lives.

The prose is gorgeous. When Petrona first comes to Chula’s family she’s almost mute. Chula “always imagined the silence in Petrona’s throat like dry fur draping over her vocal cords, and when she cleared her throast, I imagined the fur shaking a little, then settling smooth like hair on a fruit.”

And this: “War always seemed distant in Bogotá, like niebla descending on the hills and forests of the countryside and jungles. The way it approached us was like fog as well, without us realizing, until it sat embroiling everything around us,”

Early in the novel, the Santiago family is engaging in their weekly Friday television watching: “When Mama changed the channels we were regularly disturbed by the graphic quality of the news reports. I could piece something together from the news –massacres in the countryside, common graves found in farms, peace talks with the guerillas, but I didn’t understand who was responsible for what or what any of it meant.”

One Friday she recognizes a nearby street, the site of a car bomb. The reporter points out a young girl’s severed leg with a red shoe and white sock still attached. It reminded me of the image seared into our current collective consciousness of the three-year-old Syrian refugee boy dead on the beach. The difference for Chula is the nightmare is right outside her window, in her neighborhood. And later her mother takes Chula and her sister to a rally for a presidential candidate which ends in horrific violence.

This is novel about family and class, the haves and the have-nots, and ultimately those who have choices and those who don’t. Most of read read about the Escobar reign of terror and tsk tsked. This book brings you right inside it and its very human toll. It’s a beautifully told story about a tragic time, one that opens your heart and rips it apart.


I have to thank my cousin Linda for re-introducing me to Anne Fadiman’s book Ex Libris. I picked it up when it was first published 20 years ago and I was moving too fast to take it in. I’m in exactly the right place now to appreciate her exquisite sensibility.

Faidman_ExLibrisAnne Fadiman loves words and language and books and has a way of making what’s fascinating to her fascinating to us as well. Did you ever know you cared about Arctic exploration or William Kunstler’s bad sonnets? Trust me, you will.

Fadiman comes from an uber-literary family. Every Sunday night they gathered around the TV for G.E. College Bowl and Fadiman U, as they called themselves, won almost every time. Just like your family and mine … not. When she was four, she “liked to build castles with [her] father’s pocket-sized, twenty-two volume set of Trollope.” Me too, said no one.

Fadmiman has a great sense of humor whether writing about the challenges of merging her library with her new husband’s, books about food (“My moist frequent response to gastronomic references in literature is an immediate urge to raid the refrigerator”), her compulsion to read anything (“I’d rather have a book but I’d settle for a set of Water Pik Instructions”), and the joys of what she calls “You-Are-There Reading,” reading books in the places they describe (e.g. Steinbeck on Cannery Row, John Wesley Powell in the Grand Canyon).

I know you’re a book lover because you’re reading this. You owe it to yourself to read this book. It’s an absolute delight. Thank you, Linda.

Here’s How to Keep a Book Club Together for Decades (It Involves Wine)

Datebook-E6-4June19My June 4 column for the San Francisco Chronicle’s Datebook—complete with a list of all 258 books my club has read.)

My book club started during the Reagan administration. The original members all worked at KPIX television in San Francisco, and somehow we discovered we all had a passion for good literature, serious stuff as opposed to best-sellers. We also discovered we’d all come of age during a time when the classics had been set aside in most higher education literature classes and replaced by what was alleged to be more relevant material. We had a hunger for reading what we’d missed—Tolstoy, Henry James, Jane Austen and the like—so that became our focus. And we’d read fiction exclusively.

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Lori Gottlieb & Laila Lalami

A book about a therapist who writes about her patients and her own therapy? Are you kidding me? As one who’s had a fair amount of her own experience with therapy (you’re shocked, right?), why would I want to read about anyone else’s?

Gottlieb_MaybeBecause, it turns out, Lori Gottlieb’s book Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is entertaining (especially if you’re something of a voyeur, like me), well-written, and, most importantly, has that quality I look for in every book I read: it tells us something about the human condition.

An aside: I generally steer clear of any book that feels even the slightest bit self-helpy. For whatever reason I feel that my own issues are far too complex, interesting and, well, special to benefit from advice doled out by the author of a book intended for the masses. Gottlieb’s book, without proclaiming itself self-help, sneakily causes us to examine our own behavior as we read about her own emotional trials and tribulations as well as those of her patients.

Here’s a section I underlined that felt illuminating: “therapy is about understanding the self that you are. Part of getting to know yourself is to unknow—to let go of the limiting stories you’ve told yourself about who you are so that you aren’t trapped by them, so you can live your life and not the story you’ve been telling yourself about your life.” Hmmmmmmm.

By the way, Lori Gottlieb is funny, self-deprecating, and almost uncomfortably honest. She’s also a little bit nuts, which makes her relatable. Her portraits of her patients, admittedly composites, ring true and we root for them on their journey to self-discovery. We root for her too, although I was pleased she didn’t solve all her issues and ride off into the sunset with a man on a white horse by the end of the book.

A note on Gottlieb’s own therapist, whom she calls Wendell in the book. She presents him as extremely skilled and compassionate, pretty much the dream shrink. He even dances with her when she’s ready – you’ll have to read the book to understand this. I’m a little miffed my shrink never danced with me. I many have to take it up with her.


Lalami_OtherIn March I finally visited Joshua Tree National Park to see the desert in bloom, a trip I’d been meaning to do for years. Laila Lalami’s The Other Americans caught my eye because it takes place in Joshua Tree and I was curious to see how the Mojave figured into the novel.

The book revolves around an unresolved murder, a hit and run involving a Moroccan immigrant. His daughter, who has left the desert behind for the life of a struggling composer in Oakland, returns home, becomes involved in solving the mystery of her father’s death, and falls in love with an old classmate.

This novel is much more than a police procedural. It’s about life in contemporary America post 9-11 for a Muslim family who, no matter how many American flags they fly at their business are still vilified. It’s also about the ugly racism experienced by a black female police detective, the justified paranoia of an undocumented Mexican immigrant, the PTSD of Iraqi war veterans, and the failed American dream of the white middle class. And almost every character is harboring secrets.

It’s not a pretty picture: the personal and the political are on a collision course in the small community in which the novel takes place. On my visit to Joshua Tree I had the definite sense there are many different slices of America living in close proximity in the small towns that line Highway 29: families from the 29 Palms Marine Corps base, old hippies running funky health food stores, artists who’ve flown LA, drawn by the beauty of the desert and cheap real estate, motorcycle freaks, and stoners on the lam from who knows what. It’s the perfect place to set a novel and Lalami makes the most of it.